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Hi there! I go by Esper or Esperanza (she/her). I like RPing most themes, from slice-of-life (not in great excess), adventure, combat, dark and mature RP (with proper discussion beforehand), with a heavier emphasis on character growing and slow-burning romance. That's if the characters click– don't let this discourage you, I love all types of connections and IC drama!I prefer to RP with adults over the age of 25+, I understand this bracket is a little high, but I can always make exceptions. Please no overpowered characters (WoL, demigods, most voidsent concepts, Primals) with main character syndrome, winning every combat RP, you get the picture.IC does not equal OOC; I have a zero tolerance for RP drama/tea.
You break it, you're blocked. My characters views do not reflect my own. Lastly, IRL always comes first on your end AND mine. Never ever cancel IRL obligations to make a roleplay, we always have time to write if you want to!
Hooks are important.
No metagaming or godmodding. What you read in my character carrds should NOT be applicable knowledge to your character. Lore bending OK. Hooks matter. Read carrds, tyvm.Moon, Wi-Fi, Fight Club?
I can share my info depending on what you use. No syncshells.Can we headcanon pre-written history?
No, this is reserved for trusted friends only.It's not working out, [insert reason here].
There is no hard feelings. I don't get offended when people ghost me. I'd love to know why, but if you can't give me a reason, it's all good. There's really no issue.I'm interested in romance RP.
All of my OCs are monogamous. Read more here.Honor system or dice roll?
Under no circumstances will I do honor system. I dice roll with a simple d20 to keep things fair. No godmodding or permanent maim, injury, or death, unless we talked about things prior.Do you RP with more than one person?
I have more than one writing/RP partner. If you require (1) solitary RP partner to give you attention, go elsewhere. I understand the sentiment and I am sorry I cannot acommodate.Do you ERP?
I prefer a fade-to-black situation to move story along, it's not really my preference unless there is story, but even then I tend to be hesitant. If you need a quick fix, I direct you to a few brothels where people are respectful.
I'm 35+, cis female, and Asian American. I've been RPing in XIV since 2020, an have been RPing in general since I was in high school. Mostly been a GPOSER until summer of 2024 when I started to do high-end raiding. Yans and gimmie cats give me nightmares. Other than XIV, I collect cars and look at raccoons all day. 🦝Ask me about my other characters - I have a ton of alts!
First of all, I appreciate your (presumed) interest in my character ❤️ There's a few things you should know and some cautionary tales on my end, that way we're on the same page. Since this is my favorite genre to play, I need to setup some expectations.
I have three primary characters that I put heavier emphasis on, and two of them are locked into romances - I have to respect my friends' time and effort as I'm not a roleplayer that romances and "dumps." I actively work on the relationships. This means that if you want your "main" OC to be locked into a romance with one of my secondary characters or alternatives, it probably won't work out, and I have to be super realistic about it. Respect your time and efforts as a writer, first and foremost, because it's not fair to you!
That being said, if you're still interested in my alts/secondary OCs and don't mind us trying romance, keeping your expectations fairly low... All of my characters are strictly monogamous. This is a non-negotiable. I know “lore accuracy” might suggest otherwise, but for me this is important to how I enjoy RP. If your character is polyamorous or in an open relationship, I won’t pursue a casual or romantic connection. I also usually fade to black for sexual situations. I also enjoy the slow-burn of becoming lovers vs an instantaneous connection.If that doesn’t scare you away, congrats! You’re on the right difficulty setting.